From Grief to Growth: When One Door Closes, Many More Open
When One Door Closes, Many More Open
We’ve all heard the phrase, “when one door closes, another opens.” But in the moment of letting go — whether it’s a relationship, a client, or a job — it doesn’t always feel that simple.
In fact, it can feel overwhelming.
Because when we close a door that gave us glimpses of joy or comfort, we grieve. We grieve the “what ifs,” the potential we thought we saw, the pieces of ourselves that we projected into that possibility.
But here’s the deeper truth: if that situation was truly aligned, we wouldn’t have to bargain with ourselves. Our values would be met consistently. Our needs would be honored. And our happiness wouldn’t be sometimes — it would be most of the time.
Closing the door on what isn’t fully aligned is not a loss. It’s an initiation.
When you choose alignment, you don’t just open one new door — you open many. New opportunities for love, joy, fulfillment, and purpose begin to flow in. That’s the power of alignment. That’s the gift of honoring your values.
Why Closing a Door Hurts (and Why It’s Worth It)
Relationships: Letting go of someone who only offers breadcrumbs can feel devastating — but it makes space for a partner who consistently shows up.
Clients or work: Saying no to misaligned opportunities frees you up to welcome clients and jobs that light you up.
Personal growth: Releasing the familiar, even if it’s comfortable, is often what opens the path to true expansion.
Grief is part of the process — but it’s not the end. It’s the bridge into a life where your values and needs are actually met.
Understanding the Key to True Happiness: Your Core Values
When you understand your core values — things like safety, freedom, fun, or connection — you begin to see why certain doors never felt right (even when they looked good on the outside).
Fragments of happiness aren’t enough. True fulfillment comes when your values are honored and your needs are consistently met.
That’s why I created my Values Quiz → to help you uncover the top values that drive your happiness, relationships, and alignment.
👉 Take the Values Quiz here and discover which doors are truly meant for you.
Aligning With Your Next Chapter through energy healing✨
If you’re standing in that doorway right now — grieving what was, but knowing there’s more waiting for you — please know you don’t have to walk through it alone.
This is the work I do with clients every day: helping you release the “what ifs,” return to your values, and open the doors that are truly meant for you.
🌙 Ways we can work together:
Book a 1:1 Energy Healing Session to clear what’s keeping you stuck.
Join my group programs where we dive into alignment, emotional alchemy, and creating from your true self.
Your next chapter is waiting. Many doors are ready to open — the only question is: will you step through?