🌟Why Asking for Strength Can Keep You Stuck (and How Spiritual Alignment Sets You Free)
When Strength Makes Things Harder
Have you ever noticed that when you pray or set the intention for strength — whether it’s to leave a relationship, a job, or even just to set a boundary — things seem to get harder?
The lessons pile on.
The chaos gets louder.
Your boundaries are tested again and again.
At first, I thought this was just “part of the process.” But then a realization dropped in:
✨ When I ask for strength, I’m already declaring myself weak.
The Hidden Problem with Asking for Strength
The very act of asking for strength kept me living in the frequency of struggle.
It was as if I was telling the universe, “I can’t do this unless you give me more than I have.”
And so life mirrored that back to me — giving me more to push against, more obstacles to wrestle with, more chaos to “prove” my strength.
What Changed Everything: Spiritual Alignment Over Strength
When I shifted my language, everything changed.
Instead of asking for strength or even ease, I started asking for alignment with what I actually want.
💫 To be so lit up by building my business and my empire that I didn’t have time for distractions.
💫 To be so anchored in my future that I stopped looping in the question, “Will this relationship work? Will this job work?”
💫 To be so present with what lights me up that everything else dissolved naturally.
From that place, I didn’t need strength to leave something. I was too busy walking forward.
The Difference Between Strength and Alignment
Here’s what I realized:
Strength pushes. It’s about force, grit, and muscling through resistance.
Alignment pulls. It’s about resonance, ease, and being drawn toward what lights you up.
And when you’re pulled forward by alignment, you don’t have to force anything. The wrong things naturally fall away.
Key Takeaway
Don’t just ask for strength to leave what isn’t for you.
Ask to be so aligned with your truth that what isn’t for you dissolves on its own.
🌟 Affirmations for Spiritual Alignment & Empowerment
I choose alignment that pulls me forward with ease.
I release what isn’t for me, and it dissolves easily on its own.
I am too lit up by my purpose to be distracted by what doesn’t align.
I walk in my truth, and life opens many aligned doors in front of me.
I don’t force, I flow. I don’t push, I allow.
My energy belongs to what expands me, not what drains or weighs me down.
The more I align with love and purpose, the lighter my path becomes.
True empowerment doesn’t come from asking for strength — it comes from choosing spiritual alignment and walking in your own power
Sometimes making this shift is simple in theory but harder in practice — especially when old patterns keep looping. This is exactly the work I support my clients with in private energy healing sessions. If you’re ready to move from struggle into alignment, you can explore working with me Book a Session.
With Love,
Christin